A friend was going to sell the business that she has spent her life to build up. She sent me a text message and said that I was depressed and resisted to although it sold at a very good price. That was my baby.
I read an article sent by a friend lately. It is about a person bumped into a couple when he did hiking every time. They were very old and lead by the hand lovely. The old man told him that I borrowed my wife from my father-in-law when I was young. The old lady said that she married him under the jurisdiction.
太 太,頂多讓我們牽手六、七十年,也就莎喲那那啦。這中間離婚或意外死亡的,緣就更淺了。錢財、房屋,一個閃失,一個意外,一個無常,說不定就化為烏有了。 想到這樣,我們就不會被眼前暫時的喜怒哀樂景象給騙了,以為我們的一切永遠都是我們的。當因緣散了,就執而痛苦不堪。因緣變了,或失去親人,或身體損 壞,或失去財富,若天天悶悶不樂,走不出來,這樣對事情一點幫助都沒有。
The old man explained that everything in the world including wives, wealth, children, and bodies are borrowed. It comes when it comes. We have only the right to use them but not the ownership. We borrow our body using for maximum 100 years then, we go back to soil.
Although life is uncertain, don’t be negative. Do it when needed and seize the chance. However, don’t try too hard as everything has the right time to start or end. Life is short, be happy always. The most important is to seize the chance when the chance is coming.